Reply to this Question Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A female reader, Honeypie +, writes (17 June 2014): I agree with Auntie Cindy (as usual) He isn't that keen on dating you. And what he wants is sex on a platter. When it's CONVENIENT for him. I'd skip this guy.
Auntie BB has given you some good financial advice. But make sure you get away from him for the time being, if you can't get him to move out fr legal reasons stay with relatives friends if possible. Let him see what he's losing because if he carries on like this he's asking to lose you. His behaviour is unacceptable.
Have you talked to your wife about what she will do with the info? Does she want to talk to them or "just" look? How would she feel if you started looking in the past for exes as well? Curiosity is one thing. But getting back in touch is a whole other bag of crap-apples. I absolutely agree with Auntie Cindy, WHO cares about the people of your past?
I agree with Auntie BimBim WHO the hay! checks their spouse' panty color before they leave the house? And have you considered that menopause, age and less strong muscles have made her urinary tract less strong - so a good laugh, cough or sneeze can leave a drop or two of pee coming out.